Witch hunts hurt yourself as much as others involved. Whistle-blow bad behaviour to make them accountable for their actions but make sure you personally have proof prior if you get called out for it. Keep helping others, treat everyone’s style of play with respect, respect peoples consent if they choose not to prescribe to your style.
here is some advice in a nutshell of how I have tried my best to help this community. I tried my best to take initiative to help people in the community and while it has helped many newcomers over the years learn about the fetish in a safe and sane way, I am sad to announce this but very happy that this new generation of volunteers in the community is taking things in a much more loving, caring, informed and inclusive way than things were in the past. Personally I would rather motivate than control anyone. This was never meant to be about me and definitely not a one-man-band. (I refuse to add advertising to protect users personal information) What this means is the resources here are going to become static but still freely accessible until the fundraising cant cover server costs. The lack of volunteers, the hate mail and lack of financial help has meant that current development has been unsustainable for me to keep being involved. Sadly, Active development of Nerdy Doggo and PupPlay.Info is coming to an end in early 2020. Just be considerate of others and next time you see a yellow or red pup, please try and remember that it may not be an indication they like being fisted or pissed on.
Remember, there is no official rule or statement to suggest that pups must comply to a form of code and there is no rule to say they can’t either. The only way we can move forward with the subject is to respect that a pup hood means a lot to the individual and whether they are flagging or not, you choose to act on your own initiatives. However, it is far less popular to flag a fetish colour using this method. Figures show it all falls down to the individual wearing the hood. Or, maybe it’s the fact that pup hoods are not handkerchiefs and may not entirely be related to the hanky code? Perhaps.ĭespite misconceptions that Pup hoods are all coded, a recent survey took place, which showed that only a low percentage of pups ( 25%) used the hanky code when choosing their pup colour, leaving a larger 75% of Pup’s wishing to display their favourite colour preference. Is that a market tactic? Just an excuse to buy extra products? Maybe. So, if we have flagging coloured hoods, why the handkerchiefs? It’s not a question that I’ve personally come across, more one that’s struck a cord with myself. In fact, Recon and also a number of other fetish companies have distributed their own set of handkerchiefs specifically aimed towards human pups wanting to flag their fetishes. While some companies may have personally designed their pup hoods to work as an added addition to the hanky code, its important to remember that not every company has or even tried to put the two in comparison with each other. So, what does hanky code have to do with Pup play? In essence, the subject has left a lot of pups, handlers, owners and trainers scratching their heads in wonder. In retrospective, the act was (and is) used to be as bold and efficient as possible.Ī breakdown of some of the main colours used: The earliest act dates back to as early as 1970, but is still widely used to this present day.
The bearer of the handkerchief uses the coloured handkerchief, in order to flag and indicate a sexual interest or fetish. ‘ The Handkerchief Code‘ (most commonly referred to as ‘The hanky code’) is a colour-coded system used commonly by gay and bisexual men.